Of course I still don't know how this community works, I haven't been in kin communities much (and I only just joined this site haha); however, I also take it very seriously. I want to be able to show others exactly who I am. I want to validate my identities. I'm too scared irl to actually mention this to anybody. I doubt anyone I know would take me seriously, let alone not mock me or call me crazy. I really hope I can just understand and talk to others...